There's an object sitting in the nightstand drawer of more men than you'd think. It's not a pill, not a pump, not a surgery. It's a sleeve of medical-grade silicone that slips over a penis and, depending on who you ask, either transforms a relationship or quietly complicates it. A 33-year-old man who goes by ThrowRA_1837487  on Reddit posted something last year that most men would never say out loud. He was average-sized, happily married, and had been reading about penis slee

Most guys get hung up on pump types  like they’re picking a smartphone. I don’t care nearly as much about the label on the box as I care about what happens once you’re actually in the pump cylinder: fit, pressure control, heat, and whether you’re training tissues, or just inflating yourself into a temporary science project. If your sessions keep ending in blotchy discoloration, puffy swelling, or that “why does it look uneven?” moment, it’s rarely because you picked the wrong

by Rick Hogart The first time I noticed how hard I was working  during sex, it wasn’t because my partner complained. It was because my brain sounded like a sweaty stage manager with a headset. Okay, okay, we’re doing great. Keep tempo. Keep pressure. Don’t lose the thread. Make sure she thinks you’re a god. What’s your face doing? Why is your face doing that. Meanwhile, my body was there, technically present, like a guy who showed up to help a friend move but keeps checking h

Alright guys, today is a technical one, but it’s important. We’re going to talk about PDE5 inhibitors in the context of penis enhancement and long-term penile function. When people hear “PDE5 inhibitors,” they usually think: Viagra (sildenafil), Cialis (tadalafil), Levitra (vardenafil) . Most guys file them under “ED meds,” and stop there. For us, men doing PE work (manual stretching, pumping, extenders, hangers), PDE5 inhibitors show up in a different conversation: Blood fl

In the world of elite sports, the difference between gold and obscurity is measured in millimeters. Cyclists shave their legs to reduce drag; swimmers wear hydrodynamic caps. But in ski jumping, a sport where athletes are essentially human gliders, the quest for aerodynamic perfection has reportedly taken a turn for the bizarre. Rumors swirling around recent Winter Games suggest a new, underground trend: athletes allegedly using Hyaluronic Acid (HA) fillers to artificially en

Most guys who get curious about fisting have the same second thought right after the first: Wait… is that safe?  Anxiety here is a useful signal. Fisting asks more from your body than most anal play, and it asks more from both people in terms of communication, patience, and trust. Treat it as a choice you make with care and clear boundaries. And if you’re going to explore it, you want the basic facts before you get swept up in the fantasy. Fisting: What people actually like a

Most guys learn to masturbate the same way they learn to microwave leftovers, fast, on autopilot, and usually while trying not to get caught. And hey, quick release has its place. But if that’s the only  mode you’ve got, you’re leaving a ton of benefits on the table, mentally, physically, and in how you show up with a partner. Over the last few years, a lot more men have started treating solo time as part of basic upkeep. Not some shamey “dirty secret,” not a flex, not a punc

A lot of men move through the world undertouched. Not “in a sad way”, just in a modern way. Touch gets funneled into two narrow lanes: quick social gestures (handshakes, back pats), and sex. Everything in between gets awkward, risky, or coded as something it’s not. That leaves a gap: sensual touch , the kind of slow, soothing contact that builds calm, closeness, and body confidence. Hugging, cuddling, shoulder squeezes, scalp rubs, a long back massage, fingertip tracing, ches

We got this email (details lightly edited for privacy): “My girlfriend and I have been together five years. Early on we were having sex all the time. Then we settled into a couple times a week. She used to be multi-orgasmic. During the pandemic our intimacy fell off. Then she started having hot flashes and said she felt different ‘down there.’ She had a hysterectomy years ago but still has her ovaries. We’ve worked on the relationship and things are better—she says she’s happ

We got this one in our email this week (edited for privacy, but the core is the same): “I’m about 3.5 inches hard. I’ve heard women don’t care about size, but that hasn’t been my experience. I’ve had women laugh, ask ‘is it in?’ and straight-up tell me they can’t date me because I’m too small.I feel crushed. Part of me wants to give up on dating women completely.” First: that’s brutal. Not “awkward,” not “a misunderstanding.” Cruel.  And it makes sense that your confidence to