Plenty of guys can get it up for bad sizing. Not in the fun way, more like a quiet, stubborn denial that the condom aisle might actually be a math problem. They’ll argue about girth on Reddit, measure in secret, but still swear they’re a Magnum guy because that’s the story they’d rather tell themselves. Meanwhile, the numbers don’t lie. Studies from the CDC  and PubMed  show most condoms are longer and tighter than the average penis. Which means plenty of guys are walking aro

For many men, the idea of a partner swallowing hits something deep in their wiring. The excitement comes from being received, from the image of connection made physical. Sex therapist Marty Klein  has written that acts involving bodily fluids often carry a hidden message of acceptance , a way of saying “you’re fully welcome here.” That kind of validation moves through the body faster than thought. Most men don’t articulate it that way, but their bodies react to it as proof of

The position some men side-eye, and the payoff their nerves keep campaigning for. Read together; practice together. Or just forward this with a calendar emoji. The posture alone can set off alarms, reverse blowjob? Knees apart, hips tilted, spine making room for someone else’s mouth. A lot of men are taught to be the one looming over the action, not the one braced and exposed. That script sticks, yet the body has its own politics, and they’re stubborn. The underside of the pe

Three years ago, I downloaded the STAMENA Kegel app . I didn’t tell anyone. It felt like the kind of thing a man has to explore privately, not because it’s shameful, but because it’s intimate. It’s the kind of work that happens in silence, in your own skin. Fast-forward to today: 896 points earned , one point for every day I’ve shown up and done the workout. Not consecutive, but consistent enough to matter. Forward Kegels. Reverse Kegels. Every session, a small vote for contr