Most guys learn to masturbate the same way they learn to microwave leftovers, fast, on autopilot, and usually while trying not to get caught. And hey, quick release has its place. But if that’s the only  mode you’ve got, you’re leaving a ton of benefits on the table, mentally, physically, and in how you show up with a partner. Over the last few years, a lot more men have started treating solo time as part of basic upkeep. Not some shamey “dirty secret,” not a flex, not a punchline. Just a...

By The Grown Man Most men think pumping is just about getting bigger. Well, that's how most  of us get into it, no doubt about that. It’s also a wonderful tool for guys recovering from surgery, including on their prostate. It can provide a bit of a tickle-up erection enhancement pre-intercourse, too. What’s the formula? Add pressure, wait a few minutes, admire the temporary size. Job done. I don't want to belittle this, so to speak, but fellas, you’re missing out on some wonderful magic if...

Well, we just had an article on Jingqi and the 10th-century Japanese approach to pleasure, in particular with respect to male orgasm frequency. It made me think about even older approaches to pleasure and the famous Kama Sutra. The pursuit of excellence in endurance and vitality is by no means a modern concept! Our ancestors possessed profound insights into the art of stamina that can be applied to our lives today. The Wisdom of the Ages The Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian text, is revered not...