Suck My D*ck—from the Back, Obviously (Reverse Fellatio)
- JELQ2GROW
- 5 days ago
- 4 min read
The position some men side-eye, and the payoff their nerves keep campaigning for. Read together; practice together. Or just forward this with a calendar emoji.
The posture alone can set off alarms, reverse blowjob? Knees apart, hips tilted, spine making room for someone else’s mouth. A lot of men are taught to be the one looming over the action, not the one braced and exposed. That script sticks, yet the body has its own politics, and they’re stubborn. The underside of the penis and the terrain around it are wired like a festival, dense sensation, short distance between “hm” and “holy.” When you come in from behind, you’re not performing a stunt; you’re stepping into that circuit with better access. Neuroanatomy had the argument won before masculinity ever rolled its eyes.
What makes the angle feel “controversial” isn’t the act, it’s the symbolism. Receptive positions get read as feminine, submissive, or “not straight enough,” which is how a lot of boys learn to police themselves long before they learn their own nerve map. Social scientists even have a term for this, homohysteria, the fear that enjoying the wrong sensation will be judged as the wrong identity. That fear lingers; the body doesn’t care. In studies with straight men, plenty talk openly about receiving anal or perineal stimulation once shame loosens its grip. The resistance is cultural; the curiosity is human.
Okay—try it
Think scene, not stunt. Agree on the menu (rimming, fingers, toys, words) in one calm sentence while you’re both vertical. Freshen up. Park a towel and some water where you can reach them. Music helps; overhead lights do not.
Set the stage
Edge of the bed is the friendliest launchpad. One person folds at the waist, feet shoulder-width, knees soft, hips tipped just enough to bring the undercarriage into view. The other kneels behind. Pillows under the chest lift the pelvis without turning this into yoga. If knees hate kneeling, side-lying works: top leg forward, bottom leg straight, hips angled to open the corridor.
Find the angle
You’re not folding a ruler. Let gravity do half the work. A relaxed 60–90 degrees away from the torso is plenty. Think access, not acrobatics. If anything feels tuggy, widen the stance or nudge the hips forward a breath.
Reverse Blowjob: Start the conversation with touch
Hands go first. Thighs or hips make solid anchors; slow passes along the seam from balls to base cue the nervous system. Breathing will shift, let that set the tempo.
Receiver notes: meet the touch. Widen or narrow your stance to dial intensity; a small hip tilt (tuck = gentler, tip = stronger) changes everything. Use a hand to open space or to steady the base if downward pull feels tuggy.
The sequence (short and usable)
Undercarriage run.
(Giver) Flatten the tongue from base to tip along the underside, unrushed. Linger at the frenulum; seal and pulse lightly.
(Receiver) Breathe into your belly and rock a centimeter at a time. Micro-movements tell them what lands without a speech.
Hands in time.
(Giver) One hand lifts the balls; the other keeps short, slick strokes at the base in rhythm with your mouth.
(Receiver) Offer a hand back if you want more lift or spread; guide their wrist to the pace you like. If you prefer less pull, hold the base yourself for a beat.
Crossfade.
(Giver) Drift to the perineum with gentle pressure or small circles, then return to the underside before the engine cools. Keep the loop fluid.
(Receiver) A slow exhale or a small press back says “more”; stillness says “hold.” If you want a lane change, perineum, balls, underside, say the word or tap.
Keep the body happy
Necks need options. Shift knees, change shoulder angle, take micro-breathers with hands while the mouth rests a beat.
Receiver notes: soften the knees, pad under chest or wrists, and adjust hip height with a pillow. If hamstrings speak up, bend the knees or switch to side-lying. Lube extends stamina and spares skin, use plenty.
Turn up or down without killing the vibe
If intensity spikes, widen the focus: inner-thigh kisses, broader tongue passes, slower rhythm. When more is welcome, narrow back to frenulum/perineum and shorten the strokes.
Receiver notes: keep language simple, “stay,” “slower,” “wider,” names. A steady hand on their forearm sets cadence better than a paragraph.
Ways this travels across bodies
Bigger bellies or thighs? Bed-edge plus a small pillow under the chest creates space without strain. Limited mobility or seated sex? Hips slide forward in the chair and the same undercarriage tour applies. Erection status can wander; the perineum and shaft respond to pressure and warmth regardless, so pleasure keeps its momentum.
Why it’s worth the experiment
The angle rewires focus. The gaze shifts, the control axis flips, and the nerve-dense underside finally gets stage time. That can feel transgressive for men trained to stay upright and unbothered. It also feels like relief, less performance, more sensation. If a line ever needed a happy ending, it’s this one, and the ending is simple: widen your base, breathe, and let the good tissue do its job.
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