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Ancient Wisdom, Modern Mastery : Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Longer
Well, we just had an article on Jingqi and the 10th-century Japanese approach to pleasure, in particular with respect to male orgasm frequency. It made me think about even older approaches to pleasure and the famous Kama Sutra. The pursuit of excellence in endurance and vitality is by no means a modern concept! Our ancestors possessed profound insights into the art of stamina that can be applied to our lives today. The Wisdom of the Ages The Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian text
Ancient Japanese Sex Manual Says: Have Sex More, Finish Less
If Tamba Yasuyori , a 10th-century Japanese court physician, could see modern Pornhub habits and how much we nut in a week, he’d probably faint. His vision of sex and health is still sitting in Tokyo’s imperial archives, in the Ishinhō , a 30-scroll medical compendium he finished in 984. Scroll 28 is basically a manual on longevity through sex. It talks about jingqi , a vital life force, and tells men to cultivate it through long, gentle lovemaking… while only ejaculating thr
So, About Choking: What Men Are Not Being Told
Choking during sex used to sound like something you would only see in niche porn. Now it is in hookup stories, group chats, and memes, something many of us have tried at least once, on the giving side or the receiving side. On one big United States campus, a random survey of almost five thousand students found that 58 percent of women had been choked during sex at least once, and a lot of men had either been choked or done the choking. So choking is not a weird outlier anymo
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Ancient Wisdom, Modern Mastery : Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Longer
Well, we just had an article on Jingqi and the 10th-century Japanese approach to pleasure, in particular with respect to male orgasm frequency. It made me think about even older approaches to pleasure and the famous Kama Sutra. The pursuit of excellence in endurance and vitality is by no means a modern concept! Our ancestors possessed profound insights into the art of stamina that can be applied to our lives today. The Wisdom of the Ages The Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian text
Ancient Japanese Sex Manual Says: Have Sex More, Finish Less
If Tamba Yasuyori , a 10th-century Japanese court physician, could see modern Pornhub habits and how much we nut in a week, he’d probably faint. His vision of sex and health is still sitting in Tokyo’s imperial archives, in the Ishinhō , a 30-scroll medical compendium he finished in 984. Scroll 28 is basically a manual on longevity through sex. It talks about jingqi , a vital life force, and tells men to cultivate it through long, gentle lovemaking… while only ejaculating thr
So, About Choking: What Men Are Not Being Told
Choking during sex used to sound like something you would only see in niche porn. Now it is in hookup stories, group chats, and memes, something many of us have tried at least once, on the giving side or the receiving side. On one big United States campus, a random survey of almost five thousand students found that 58 percent of women had been choked during sex at least once, and a lot of men had either been choked or done the choking. So choking is not a weird outlier anymo
Can’t Get It Up When Using Protection?
Plenty of guys can get it up for bad sizing. Not in the fun way, more like a quiet, stubborn denial that the condom aisle might actually be a math problem. They’ll argue about girth on Reddit, measure in secret, but still swear they’re a Magnum guy because that’s the story they’d rather tell themselves. Meanwhile, the numbers don’t lie. Studies from the CDC and PubMed show most condoms are longer and tighter than the average penis. Which means plenty of guys are walking aro
Do Women Actually Enjoy Swallowing?
For many men, the idea of a partner swallowing hits something deep in their wiring. The excitement comes from being received, from the image of connection made physical. Sex therapist Marty Klein has written that acts involving bodily fluids often carry a hidden message of acceptance , a way of saying “you’re fully welcome here.” That kind of validation moves through the body faster than thought. Most men don’t articulate it that way, but their bodies react to it as proof of
Suck My D*ck—from the Back, Obviously (Reverse Fellatio)
The position some men side-eye, and the payoff their nerves keep campaigning for. Read together; practice together. Or just forward this with a calendar emoji. The posture alone can set off alarms, reverse blowjob? Knees apart, hips tilted, spine making room for someone else’s mouth. A lot of men are taught to be the one looming over the action, not the one braced and exposed. That script sticks, yet the body has its own politics, and they’re stubborn. The underside of the pe
The Secret Muscle No One Talks About (Until Now)
Three years ago, I downloaded the STAMENA Kegel app . I didn’t tell anyone. It felt like the kind of thing a man has to explore privately, not because it’s shameful, but because it’s intimate. It’s the kind of work that happens in silence, in your own skin. Fast-forward to today: 896 points earned , one point for every day I’ve shown up and done the workout. Not consecutive, but consistent enough to matter. Forward Kegels. Reverse Kegels. Every session, a small vote for contr
7 Oral Sex Positions to Reignite the Flame
Stuck in an oral sex rut? It happens to the best of us. The classic positions are popular for a reason, but sometimes routine can dull the spark. If you and your partner are ready to explore new sensations, change up the power dynamics, and discover deeper levels of pleasure, a simple change in position can make all the difference. Think of your bodies as a playground of possibilities. This guide will walk you through 7 positions designed to add variety, intimacy, and a whole
Are Ultra-Thin Condoms Just a Marketing Gimmick or a Sexual Revelation?
Standing in the condom aisle of a pharmacy can be a deeply existential experience. The sheer variety of choices is enough to send anyone...
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